- samuelm698
- Sep 4
- 4 min read
Updated: 5 days ago
In just a short time, Family Promise of Spokane’s latest work will be unveiled at our Wulan Mar Playscape Ribbon Cutting Ceremony. More than a year in the making, the Wulan Mar Playscape will give children in our programs a safe, fun place to socialize and play without needing to leave the shelter.
"While shelter stays are a difficult reality, we are committed to making them as supportive and nurturing as possible," says Joe Ader, Chief Executive Officer of Family Promise of Spokane. "It's more than just a playground; it's an opportunity to create spaces where all kids can come together, build friendships, and just be kids."
But the significance of this playground is deeper than swings and monkey bars. Its course was set more than a decade ago when its namesake, Wulan Mar, came to Family Promise of Spokane with her family seeking help.
Changes
Wulan’s experience with homelessness was unexpected. She, her husband Randy, and her children Dimas and Leilani became homeless after moving from Hawaii in the early 2010s. In the wake of complications with their anticipated housing arrangement, the family was left with no job, no home of their own, and few prospects. So, when an online friend suggested that Wulan seek help from a charitable local organization, Wulan decided to take a brave first step.
Wulan connected with Family Promise, who helped her stabilize the family’s situation amid great feelings of uncertainty and stress.
“Homelessness [felt] embarrassing,” Wulan recalled during a speaking panel for Family Promise of Spokane’s podcast. “You can’t avoid it, you can’t get away from it.”
Wulan remembered that her young children, though aware of the situation, seemed to feel more comfortable because of the people and support they had around them. With help from Family Promise of Spokane, the family was able to secure housing in April of 2013.
Home
“Family Promise came through and helped us to make that happen.” Wulan said. And although the family had not been homeless for very long, Wulan felt a swell of relief and comfort upon settling into their new home. “I was thinking, ‘I have a brighter future here, having my own property, my kids are okay, my family is okay.”
And indeed, everything turned out to be okay. Her son Dimas pursued an education at Whitworth University, while her daughter Leilani entered her career as a baker. In 2020, Wulan was even able to purchase a family home, marking a full 180 degree turnaround from her situation just a few years prior.
Reflection
Wulan’s advice for folks struggling through homelessness?
“Homeless is temporary. It’s not going to be easy, but if you keep thinking positively on what is going to happen and what kind of future that you picture right now—just go towards that. There are a lot of nice people that will help. You just need to seek [them out].
I mean, I’ve proved it. I was able to do it. For the longest time I thought I wouldn’t be able to buy a house, yet here I am. [Homelessness] is not a choice. You can’t generalize. People just need the support […] to help them get on their feet and encourage them to [see] that this is just temporary, and to keep trying.”
Advocacy
At the same time Wulan and her family moved into their new home, she started a new job at Oldcastle Central Pre-mix and took it upon herself to spread the word about Family Promise in the workplace. In no time, she had mustered a regular volunteer effort and even the materials needed to construct the new Playscape. Wulan had transitioned from a guest seeking help to a community advocate providing it, going so far as to build a reputation for herself as the person who always brought delicious baked treats to volunteer events.
During the closing moments of the speaking panel, Wulan shared her philosophy about homelessness to the community.
“[As a community], all you need to do is open your mind. Not everybody is the same, not everybody has the same reason that they became homeless.” Wulan explained.
Tomorrow
There is a saying that we are all standing on the shoulders of giants—which is to say that the accomplishments of today would never be possible without the courage and sacrifice of those who were with us yesterday. To us here at Family Promise, this truth is bittersweet. In late 2024, while visiting family in Indonesia, Wulan Mar passed away. In memory of Wulan and her incredible will, Family Promise of Spokane is dedicating the new playground to her. Though she is longer with us, Wulan’s journey and passion will live on in the Wulan Mar Playscape and beyond in the vibrant lives of her husband and children.
Please join us on September 12, 9:30am at the Family Promise of Spokane Central Campus, 2002 E Mission Ave, Spokane WA 99202, to celebrate Wulan’s impact at our ribbon cutting ceremony for the new Wulan Playscape. You will have the opportunity to meet our staff, see the plans for the playscape, and learn more about our programs and services.
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Samuel McLaughlin is a Digital Marketing Specialist at Family Promise of Spokane.